Results Day: When a Grade Can Feel Like So Much More Than a Grade
Results day is often described as a day of achievement, celebration and new beginnings. But for some young people, it can feel like something much bigger, heavier and far more emotional. It can be a day filled with excitement and anticipation, but also anxiety, fear, uncertainty, disappointment, relief, pride, grief and even numbness. For a parent or carer, it can be difficult to understand why reassurance such as, “It is not the end of the world” or “You can always resit your exams” does not seem to make things feel better. You may know that there are other options. You may know that one set of results does not determine a person’s future. You may know there are different routes into further education, training, employment and the things they hope to do. But knowing those things does not necessarily make the feelings disappear. Because for a young person, results day may not simply be about whether they achieved the grades they needed. I...